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Upbringings

Writer's picture: Dr. Ari McGrewDr. Ari McGrew

Updated: Dec 30, 2024

After*Words: A Snippet of My Creative PsychologySong Inspiration: Phora ft. DaniLeigh – “To the people I needed, thank you for leaving.”

This might blow someone’s mind. Are you ready to dig deep?

If you were raised by a distorted feminine, it’s possible you carry unresolved mother wounds—emotional imprints left by unmet needs during your most formative years. According to Erik Erikson’s psychosocial development theory, experiences during the industry vs. inferiority stage may have disrupted your confidence, affecting how you navigate the later identity vs. role confusion stage. These early wounds may still influence how you show up in the world today.

We explore this in depth during March’s Healing the Ages®️ 6-week series, where we unpack the layers of these imprints and their impact on your personal growth.


 

Here’s a Quick Reflection for You

Take a moment to reflect on the energy in your behaviors:

What patterns or dynamics from your childhood are playing out in your relationships, career, or identity?

Now, shift your focus to your current social circle. Does your "new upbringing" offer:

  1. Emotional safety?

  2. Support and encouragement?

If not, there’s your first step—work to be done. True healing begins when we build environments that nurture, not just exist within the shadows of our past.


 

A Tool to Help You Heal

Did you know you'll be able to own a Selfies®️ Oracle Deck this spring? These decks are designed to guide your well-being journey with clarity and intention, giving you a creative and intuitive way to explore the themes that resonate deeply in your life.

Let us know how this resonates with you—your story matters, and we’re here to support your transformation.


 

Final Thought

Healing is not about perfection; it’s about awareness, reparenting yourself, and leveling up. The journey may be uncomfortable, but the growth is worth every step. Let’s break old cycles and create something new—together.


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