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Disruptive One,

Of course you have options! But if you’re not interested in it, you probably haven’t noticed. I’m guilty of ignoring guys who like to subtly flirt with me. Here’s the thing, I’m not in a hurry to get to know someone before I have greater relationship with me.

Growing up, means taking life more seriously. Learning about assets and liabilities (to include people, places and things that truly don’t serve me).

Adapting to the next phase of your life requires examining your life strategy closely (see life history theory) to determine if you can handle it. Whether you want to admit to yourself or not real pressure can be felt. Look at all the stamina you built, even when you felt you were on the verge of a collapse at the hands unvetted family, friends, and acquaintances.

You know they’re all watching but you don’t do it for them. You do it because you’re built different. And you know whoever stands next to you will have to put in the work in. Eventually someone will come along and give you the honor and recognition due to you- not just a subtle eye glance and maybe a verbal hint. You deserve someone who can go all in with no reservations!

Meanwhile, stay on top of your business until then (you will see a return on your self care investment). Keep building.

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